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6/10
Off the beaten track coming of age story
bandw9 March 2012
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(Spoilers) Coming from the United States, I was interested in some insight into the experiences of young people in Denmark. Maybe what is seen is not representative, but I could easily identify with the culture. I always imagined that the Scandinavian countries were much advanced to the United States in the area of sexuality, but I was surprised to see that (at least in 1987 as portrayed in this film) the attitudes toward gays was on a par with the U.S. That being said, the nudity, the one scene of gay sex, and sex among teens would never have made it into a movie for general release in the U.S. That pretty much goes for 2012 as well.

Upon reflection I find Kristian, the main character, more complex than I initially gave him credit for. When his mother moves to a different school district, Kristian has to attend a new school. That is always difficult since the cliques have already been formed and it takes some time to see where you fit in. Kristian first takes up with Henrik, the odd kid out. Though Henrik never makes any physical advances, it is clear that his interest in Kristian is more than just simple friendship. At first Kristian seems to respond to that, but then he flips and shuts Henrik off and pursues getting in with Patrick, the leader of the in-group. In view of what happens later in the film, with Kristian having several heterosexual experiences, I was still left with some doubt about his sexuality. When Kristian discovers Patrick's homosexuality, he is initially repulsed, but ultimately comes to an acceptance. Perhaps that is the point the movie was trying to make.

I was confused by some parts. It was never clear to me what the story was on the living arrangements where Patrick moved. Was it some sort of community living, a boarding house, or an apartment with shared space? Maybe this is a type of living situation that is common in Denmark, but not in the U.S. We don't get much information on either of Kristian's or Patrick's family. No mention is ever made of Kristian's father, so I assumed he was living with his mother. Whatever the situation, he was not all that close with his mom. Patrick commented that his family was driving him nuts and he needed to get away so he could see whomever he wanted whenever he wanted. It was not made clear whether his family did not accept his sexuality. I would have liked the story to have been fleshed out more. The relationship between Kristian and the older singer, who was his mother's age, was far-fetched. And Kristian's skillful lovemaking with her was hard to believe, given his youthful inexperience.

Nothing special about the filming. I thought the young actors were quite good. It's odd that this is the only film most of the actors ever appeared in.

The scenes at the end that had the kids tossing leaflets opposing the school head, Ms. Kallenbach, provided a frivolous ending. However, I found the final bizarre scene that had the entire cast in costume singing on stage to be delightful and it ended things on an upbeat note. I wish this final scene had been subtitled for us English only speakers.
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6/10
Minor blip on the radar of Scandinavian coming-of-age movies
Groverdox14 August 2020
I like European coming-of-age flicks because usually they are refreshingly cliche-free and truthful. "Friends Forever" starts like that but unfortunately lets itself down with some unrealistic about-faces in its characterisation.

Kristian is a shy boy who starts school in Copenhagen and is soon befriended by Henrik, a mature nonconformist who practices tai chi and astronomy. However, Henrik is believed to be gay by the other students in the class, particularly roughneck Patrick, so Kristian distances himself from him.

Kristian becomes fast friends with Patrick and his gang when, in one horrible scene, he helps the lad set on a poor girl in class and rip her top off. Kristian is further surprised, however, to find that Patrick is gay, and is in a relationship with an older man. Meanwhile, he sees an ageing female pop singer in a nightclub, and makes the hard-to-swallow decision to begin a sexual relationship with her, despite her being at least thirty years older than him, and looking it.

The girl who he humiliated tells him to "forget about the sweater thing", and starts a relationship with him too, despite the fact that when we last saw her she was struggling to cover herself, shrieking and crying and running out of the room, humiliated and traumatised.

He's also shocked to his core by his friend's homosexuality, shaking and crying that "it's not normal, nobody else is like you guys"... but yeah, you guessed it, does a pretty quick turnaround on that one.

The movie begins fairly realistically but ends up going for a quick, unbelievable resolution, and even ends with a musical routine. Shame, it could have been better.
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5/10
Not Aged Well
slbbooksmusicfilm26 March 2019
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This is one of those films that I liked very much when I first saw it about fifteen years ago, but then on rewatching it now find it more than a little problematic. On the face of it, it's a reasonably cute film, but character motivations are more than a little questionable, as are some of the situatons.

We are, presumably, meant to forget the bullying incident where the protagonist helps to strip a girl in a school classroom and throws her top out of the window. Presumably this was no big deal as they're all happy by the end. And what about the forty-five year old woman who thinks it's ok to bed a sixteen year old boy? And the thirty-ish man who does the same? Considering I don't remember these things bothering me fifteen years ago when I first saw the film, it only shows how far we have progressed in the intervening years.

Those kinds of issues aside, the cast is generally likeable, even if the characters treat each other badly and don't get any comeuppance for it. Despite everything, it's oddly naive and innocent - and there is really nothing to say about the strange decision to have a fourth-wall breaking song and dance number at the end. The film often sells for £50 and upwards on DVD these days - and at that price, it's not worth it, albeit an interesting curio.
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8/10
cute 80's teen movie
prplmnky-13 March 2010
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An interesting movie about self-discovery and friendship. I had originally been mislead about Kristians character since a lot of summaries make him out to be gay or questioning. His actions speak strongly to the contrary. The twist was good and actually provided an opportunity for more than just a typical teen sex romp or virgin quest and allowed the main character to grow. It showed how the journey of adolescent discovery includes learning who your friends are and accepting them as well as yourself and accepting that you can be different from them and vise-versa. Thumbs way up for the music video ending, very out of no where and extremely 80's.

And for some reviewers out there a little perspective, the age of consent in Denmark is 15 and has been since 1930, this is a Danish movie that takes place in Denmark and is about Danish kids. America is NOT the whole world.
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8/10
An adorable film
Aulic Exclusiva9 January 2007
This is an adorable film full of the charm and high spirits of youth. There are few shadows here and those are dealt with with confident irony, for what is youth but implied optimism? It is amazing how different the point of view is from what an American or English film might be: ambient negativity is not assumed; the boys' gayness is not an automatic ticket to trials and stress. That isn't the point at all. Their discovery of love, of their own sexual energy and of the life-enhancing qualities of friendship/comradeship is just as buoyant and just as magical as that of anyone else: wonderfully positive without ever being sugary.

The chemistry of this movie is just not that common and I would LOVE to see it on DVD. **And I now have!**

I first saw it in general release in NYC when I was 14.
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10/10
A bold movie
muchocastellano13 April 2020
Intrepid, prophetic, dramatic and amusing. This is a Scandinavian film treasure telling us a lot about the sexual discoveries, questions and insecurities, keeping the friendship as the most important matter. A free of taboos artwork offering an amazing view on the progressive, friendly and open Danish society of the 80s.

Definitely one of the best and pioneer movies about teens and homosexuality complemented with a gorgeous music background.
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9/10
Funny touching film of a young gay man's coming of age.
cricket-1416 May 1999
Similar in theme to A Beautiful Thing, Wild Reeds, and Get Real in that all four of these films deal with the turmoil of a gay male teenager coming to terms with his (homo)sexuality.

This movie has a funny and campy ending.
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