Most of orthodox family children have problems with their romantic relationships, because staying in Orthodox family obeying their rules and managing a relationship outside exhausting because guilt trips, hiding and the emotional drainage. Psychologically speaking, the perception of love and romantic partnership is defined by how parents potrey their relationship in front of us. And same pattern we tend to project on our romantic relationships also. It's sometimes challenging to make decisions and react to different situations and inability to take mature steps, just depending on trial and error. So just going with the feels, that is desires and pleasures and owning upto your own responsible decisions of relationships going against wishes of parents is also risky at times for the sake of personal security and speaking practically. These scenarios are highly common in any othodox families. But what is the truth and validation one would be seeking even from the person who motti desires to be in a relationship with this girl and going against the family in the name of love, how do children from orthodox families take the decision to move in a relationship with significant other. It needs to re-evaluated to take the decision rationally and maturely rather than having ego and pride against his orthodox parents and being driven by harmones.